People aren’t cars
Easier said than done for many – but your heart has to be open. All the time. And you have to follow it, and go with your gut. If you don’t, you’ll feel a strong need to test drive every nook and cranny, because the what-if-monster will be hounding your arse like those airport dogs. Particularly when it comes to relationships – when looking for a potential spouse, seeing if they would be suitable…you can’t test drive them and treat them like a car. They have fucking feelings.