I doooooo-n’t

Marriage – is a big step, but not huuuge as society makes it. The weight we give our demanding expectations, when we, ourselves, lack miserably is ridonculous – especially because, meta-physically, we wouldn’t have drawn that particular partner into our lives to begin with, if we didn’t hold the energy of what they’d either match or role play in. Eg. Exhibit A thoroughly enjoys spousal abuse. S/he will draw in Exhibit B, someone who holds the victim mentality energy. This is an example. I’m not saying Exhibit B deserved to be beaten up, I’m saying it’s an energetic role play. Mmmmkay. Disney messed with our fragile minds as youngens. It’s not a completion, it’s complimentary – meaning you may take one if you so wish, but regardless, you’re always a whole person, with a whole soul, not one with a hole in your soul. Wives and husbands change your lifestyle, yes, and you pull in a match you’re compatible with at the time – to whichever degree of your resonance – but other than that, you’ll just share your lives together. Eat, go out, have sex and babies and grow in the human experience. Divorce shouldn’t be the first suggestion after every disagreement, but...the option is there, should the need arise. The stigma that accompanies divorce scares the bejesus out of mankind that it drives people to wait their whole lives to get married, filtering through the masses, test driving all who’d ride along, until they reach the ripe old age of decaying corpse, so that, if by chance, they made a mistake with their choice, they’d die before realising it. Hashtag PHEWWWW – right society? I mean, look at the stats. You could be single right now reading this, and totally divorced before even being married, who knows. Everyone’s basically divorced. Don’t buy the hype, you’ll be disappointed, doubting your selection, perhaps with wandering eyes. Living on Earth is simple. Let’s not complicate things.

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